“Beacon of Hope”
My dear friend, Sheri Blumberg, shared this note on Facebook about her journey grieving her daughter, Tessa. I think it is so important to be highlighting other moms who have survived the loss of their children, and who are fervent in helping others through their pain. Sheri spends much of her time volunteering with the TEARS foundation. Here are her words: After Tessa September 11, 2011 My daughter’s death does not define me. I will not let my life be found in her death. Rather, I will let her life bring meaning to mine. September 28, 2008 split time into two realms for me: before Tessa, and after Tessa. Before…
Song of Joy
A Song of Joy Sing aloud, O daughter Zion; shout, O Israel! Rejoice and exult with all your heart, O daughter Jerusalem! The Lord has taken away the judgments against you, he has turned away your enemies. The king of Israel, the Lord, is in your midst; you shall fear disaster no more. On that day it shall be said to Jerusalem: Do not fear, O Zion; do not let your hands grow weak. The Lord, your God, is in your midst, a warrior who gives victory; he will rejoice over you with gladness, he will renew you in his love; he will exult over you with loud singing as…
How’s your foxhole?
Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12 Bill Guarnere: Once we get into combat, the only people you can trust is yourself and the fella next to you. HBO’s Band of Brothers, quotes Jack and I have lived much of our marriage in the wilderness, much of our marriage in doctor’s offices and hospitals, much of our marriage broke due to extraordinary medical expenses and the costs of coping, much of our marriage either grieving or recovering, much of our marriage wondering if God had forgotten us. With our history in mind, it may not surprise you…
You’re a Good Mama. Really.
The success of love is in the loving – it is not in the result of loving. Of course it is natural in love to want the best for the other person, but whether it turns out that way or not does not determine the value of what we have done. Mother Teresa I always smirk inside when someone tells me to take care of myself. I know I need to; I know they’re right. And yet, I find the line between taking care of me and taking care of my children to be incredibly fuzzy. Their well being is my well being; their pain is brought double upon my…
A Valentine for Heart Parents
Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life . . . John 15:13 Dear Heart Moms and Dads, Yes, you know who are. No one else might, though. At least, not by looking at you. I’ll bet your heart kid looks a lot like mine: pretty normal with all of his clothes on. It’s only at the birthday party when they smear butter cream all over their clothes, and you take their shirt off because they’re little . . . and whether you want to be talking about the zipper down his front or not, you are. You’re the one taking the very important phone call…
